Dowry system in india is not just about girl giving money to the husband. It started out as stridhan, man brings something
and the woman also has to bring something and they start their own family for their own benefit. This was considered very
mature tradition because this tradition made sure woman also has equal rights as man in the wealth.
What is Dowry
prohibition Act ?
http://socialwelfare.delhigovt.nic.in/dowryact.htm
What is IPC 498a ?
http://www.indiatogether.org/2004/mar/law-sect498a.htm
IPC 498a [draconian dowry prohibition law ] : gives extrodinary power
to girl/powerbabe to arrest any other women
in the family.
IPC 498a MYTH EXPLAINED:
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-) Iam a powerbabe, Iam a girl , I will not be affected,
it will help me .
wrong : sisters with 1 month baby and 80yr old grandmothers are arrested.
-) Iam a old woman,
police wont do anything .
wrong : mothers and sister who are 1000s of miles away who has stayed
even for a day
are also arrested.
-) I didnt get any dowry, I have all bank records to show that i
didnt get dowry, I have
all photograhs that i took my wife around the
world, I will not be affected.
wrong : Honesty is not respected in India,
everybody incl, 3 year old
GIRL will be arrested.
Lot of people dont know about IPC498a before marriage, know your
law ,
everyday 100s of women are affected their families shattered, and
oldaged parents harassed. NRIs can do little
when the girl has bribed
the cops first. IPC 498a : " Guilty until proven Innocent " US Ist
degree murder : " Innocent
until proven guilty "
UN Statistics [men suicide 3 times than woman, excluding military
death] :
http://www.who.int/ncd/mip2000/presentations/LVijayakumar/sld003.htm-) J.D. Kapoor's judgment
[
http://f5.grp.yahoofs.com/v1/sCbXQkfe7iZX2DIB9iQwXKT3iT6g8T35cJDZk93xnFi3_6IHiFRG71q1RGmtYF5uupdVoly00NbMPQBfd_cqFjPUNbEwzLpo9w/JDKapoor_498A.doc]
-) Manushi report
-) Malimath committee report
[
http://www.saveindianfamily.com/pages/courageofmalimath.html ]
-) Madhu kishwar's
recommendations.
Think again, the lady officer sitting in front of you is 80% at risk
of being falsely arrested
by IPC 498A than getting benefitted , how ?
first of all, IPC 498A CANNOT BE USED BY ALL GIRLS, It can be used
ONLY
BY DAUGHTER IN LAW AGAINST OTHER WOMEN, SISTERS, MOTHERS ETC., in
the inlaws family.
The lady officer has 20% relatives
that she is sister to,
20% relatives that she is sister in law to .
30% she is an aunt/mother to.
so totally
she has only 30% chance of using this law.
Same way, the out of the total women population , only 30% of the
women
are benefitted by this law and that too only at some point in
time, kyon ki BAHU BHI EK DIN SAANS HOGA.
The law
is grossly being misused by vicious NRI and urban women to
systematically torture innocent sisters mothers.
We are not
telling that a girl should take care of the old parents or
husband or even children all we are telling is dont punish the
innocent,
it is against humanity, the should be given no right to
punish parents under any circumstances, if domestic violence or
dowry
harassment is observed, the cops/women's org has only the right to
help the girl by giving her a job or making
her independent or even
can punish the husband if there are any physical evidence but never
punish parents and elders
of the society.
All we are telling is IPC 498a is against women. Read the law line by
line IT IS AGAINST WOMEN.
Dowry as in daughters own money released for you .
sowry as in sons own money
released for you .
The current BBC and UN statistics show men between the age of 20 an 40 suicide thrice more than
woman so the fact is SOWRY death is thrice more than DOWRY death. The problem of dowry starts only if the women doesnt contribute
equally to the family, most of the indian girls are not productive in the family that increases the problem . men die in war
, man pulls rickshaws in the scotching sun do you see a woman dieing in the war or pulling a rickshaw ? Most of the girls
get into to so called dowry problem because of the greed of the girl and the girl's parents, these girls and their parents
doesnt give the girl the freedom to move with other guys/ collegues but rather they want to export their daughters at a higher
rate which is like trading, at first arranged marriage has to be banned, Indian girls can put their innocent mother in law
and sister in law into high jail, there are lot of mistakes in the marriage system of India which has to be fixed rather than
putting mothers in jail when the marriage breaks because of the girl's greed.